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职场爱情法则：To Romance or Not 要不要浪漫
Dating someone from work is natural for many people. After all, who has time to meet someone when you're working 60 hours or more per week? You may find that understanding your mutual work lives can deepen your relationship. And ①instead of rushing home each evening, you may be willing to work late, especially if you can do it alongside your beloved.
Despite the upsides, the downsides can be pretty daunting. First, there's no escape if the romance goes sour. You still have to see and ②interact with that person every day. A failed workplace romance can also hurt your career and reputation. People may view a promotion or salary rise as favouritism, no matter how much you deserve it. And even if the relationship works out, it can be tough to work with your lover.
Whether or not you should date someone at the office isn't a clear-cut issue. It depends on your situation and personality. But if you decide to ③make the leap, tread carefully.
与办公室同事约会对许多人来说都是再自然不过的事情。毕竟，在一周工作了60个小时或更长时间后，谁还会有时间跟其他人约会呢？你也许会发现对同事们的了解会加深你们之间的关系。而且，每天晚上你也不必急着往家赶了，你也许愿意工作到很晚，特别是当恋人就守在身边的时候。
除去上述好处之外，以下就是一些让人心烦的事了。第一，如果恋情无果而终，你就没有退路了。你每天还要跟那个人见面、一起工作。一段失败的办公室恋情还会影响到你的工作和声誉。人们会视你的提升和加薪是源于这种特殊的关系，而并不去理会其实这是你理应得到的。就算恋情发展顺利，跟恋人共事也是一件令人不爽的事。
应不应该与同事谈恋爱并不是一个轻易能说得清的话题。这取决于你所处的地位和个人的性格。但是如果你决意“来一段”的话，一定得步步小心。
①instead of 作为……的替换
A: Let's play cards instead of watching TV.
咱们玩纸牌吧，别看电视了。
B: Great. I don't want to watch that TV-show at all.
好极了，我根本不想看那部电视剧。
②interact with sb. 相互合作
A: That man looks strange.
那个人看起来好奇怪。
B: He is a sociologist who is studying the complex way in which people interact with each other at parties.
他是一个社会学家，正研究人们在聚会中互相交往的复杂方式的课题。
③make the leap 迫不及待地...
A: Don't get divorced. If you decide to make the leap, you'll regret it.
别离婚。如果你迫不及待想要离婚的话，你会后悔的。
B: I don't think I'll have any regrets.
我并不认为离婚会给我带来什么遗憾。
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